STUCK!

Hitting a research wall can be so extremely frustrating when you are wanting to discover more about your family history. I have been in this situation many times, and it can seem like you will never find the information you seek, and make you wonder if it really is out there, or if it is lost in history forever!

Here are a few tips to spur you along in meeting your research goals.

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My Top Picks: Family Research Sites

Here is a listing of my favorite search sites. I will include a short description of why I each one makes my list! I love free sites!

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Let’s get started!

Let’s assume you have written down what you know on family tree chart or in your own note form. I like to have the family tree chart as well as several family group forms available while I research. If I have any dates/places or other specific information, I make sure to write it down before I begin my search.

I typically start with an online search. A FREE online search. Make sure to have a pencil with an eraser, your computer, a phone (in case you need to call your parent(s) or grandparents to confirm a fact), your printed forms, and a notebook.

Once you are all set, take a look at your chart. At some point you will notice some blanks. It could be that you don’t have your great grandfather’s birthdate or marriage date.  This is where you start.

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Prepare yourself for the unexpected: Secrets

Everyone’s family is different and each family has secrets. Some family secrets are small and only slightly embarrassing, and will be told. Other family secrets will remain hidden until those who know them take them to the grave.

I was once speaking with an elderly family member who was telling me about the life of my great-great grandfather and as we began talking he said, “I am happy to tell you what I know, but there are things I need to leave out, because I will not break my family’s confidence and disgrace their memory”. I love that he held his ground and would not “tell all”. Part of me also really wanted to hear what secrets were left unmentioned.

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Good Record Keeping is Key: Storage/Retrieval

Having a good system for keeping track of your notes, tree charts, questions, contacts, documents, photographs, maps… can seem overwhelming and tedious. However it is extremely important as you begin your research journey with a plan and some proper tools.

I am a pencil and paper girl, so I like to keep my research for each branch of my family tree in a separate three ring binder with tabs that are appropriate for what is in each specific book. Here is a list of tabs/sections that I would recommend starting with…

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Interviewing: No More Excuses

There are thousands of reasons we don’t seek out information for our family tree. The biggest barrier for me was really asking family (mostly family I didn’t know well) for facts and stories. I thought I didn’t know enough yet to ask good questions, I felt they would not have time for me, and I wouldn’t have time for them. What if they were offended that I didn’t already know the answers to the questions I wanted to ask?

I had to stop making excuses and just call some family members.  I am so glad I did.

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